Everybody wants to be Free. Nobody wants to change.
3Have you ever heard your co-workers, classmates, etc. complain about their current situation? Something along the lines of “Not enough pay. Too many over-hours.” or “Stupid professors. Boring seminars.” and if you listen very closely you might hear the three famous words of “I should quit.”
And then – the next day (who would’ve guessed?) – business as usual.
Maybe you know what I mean.
There’s a very simple solution to this:
If you don’t like your job or whatever you do, don’t just do it for the sake of doing it. If you feel you could be happier doing something else, go for it! The worst mistake people make is to think that there is no alternative. That’s simply not true.
While you are reading this article you are alive and kicking in one of the most exciting times humanity has ever experienced! The fact that everyone pushes you to write more application for jobs you don’t want to do and to suffer through curriculums which you feel are irrelevant doesn’t mean this is the only way.
Have you ever considered that the world your schools and colleges prepared you for might not be relevant anymore? God forbid, no?
We’re educated to expect that we’ll all be rockstars, stinking rich and popular. Own houses. Multiple cars. Have careers like roller-coasters, except that for us it will never go down. Only up. Forward, relentlessly. The carrot: A blurry sense of “making it”, the whip: a vague fear of becoming a “nobody”. Remember what’s usually to be found in between carrot & whip? Right. Donkeys.
Getting off the Mill
This year I quit my job in a local tutoring institution and decided to “try my luck” online which is probably one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Since this day I’ve been experiencing a sense of freedom I’ve been craving since high school. I like to program things in the small hours of the morning, to learn how to get scripts to do things, to experiment with music & sounds, to throw images together like there is no tomorrow. To write articles like this one. To spend time with my wife and take long walks. And in between I help people improve their German or web-design skills via Skype.
Also, I’m busy working on lots of new music. So with a little bit of luck next year I’ll put out another album.
Thanks for reading and thanks to everybody who has supported me so far and continues to do so.
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540 days ago
ı liked the picture attached to the article very much,it reminded me of the days when me and my friends were hopefull,energetic and happy-when we were just kids…we used to ride our bicycles very fast down the road and screamm like wooooooo
540 days ago
hi merve, yes you are right! just today I thought about the fact that children don’t go through the world having expectations, doubts and fears about everything. This enables them to experience a lot of things adults don’t. In fact, here’s a simple example. Today I was taking a walk with my wife and there was a little girl standing on the street coughin. My wife instinctively reacted by saying a few words her Granny had said to her when she was not feeling weel. The child looked up and said to us: “Hello” – completely unafraid – not expecting anything. And I am convinced that the same way we grew into all of those fears, expectations and doubts about life we can grow out of them eventually.
538 days ago
yes ,childhood period seems to be the only time we can really be free…kind of sad it is….